I, Me, Myself

Some of the things I have learnt during my first 23 years on this planet...

Parents

My parents have always had it harder than me. As a kid I always felt that money grows on trees and would be annoyed when I didn’t what I needed. However as time has passed, I have realized that they have done their best to get me where I am today. And my parents grew up without mobiles, internet and every other thing I take for granted nowadays...

Time

No matter how much money I make now, a few things will not return back to where they were whatever happens. If it was possible, I would have surely turned back the clock to my childhood where it was all so different and so much more fun. I can never go back and do things I did not care about at that time, the things that I should have done and some mistakes I should not have done. Seriously, I now realize that it is just about living the moment to make it count big time...

Friends

Money can’t buy you happiness but friends can...A Little thought on the question “What are some things people lose that they regret the most?”  The answer obviously is that as one gets older, one makes fewer friends and the innocence of the old friendships will cease to exist... I still would like to hold onto to the ones who seriously care and would always be there for me come what may...

Anger

A sincere apology from the bottom of my heart to all those people with whom I have had both physical and verbal fights over the years, It was never intentional... But the fighter in me does jump out at each available opportunity. May be that’s why I make more enemies then friends but I hope I don’t add more enemies to that evergreen and long list...

Acceptance

I accept that I am overweight and whatever I do won’t help me shed those extra kilos, not that I have not tried. I have failed a lot in this regard but I do realize that I am best the way I am and would love to stay this way...

Hobby

A few months down the line, I should pick a job for myself but I hope that the grind of the Corporate World does not take the life out of me and would surely like to continue this new hobby of writing that I have picked up...Whether I succeed or not only time will tell...

Perfection

I am not perfect and never will be. Things will be incomplete and there will be problems galore but how these are dealt with is what matters in the end... Failures will happen when there are too many things attempted. The biggest lesson learnt, “Learn to let go. If it comes back, its yours. If it does not, it was never meant to be yours”

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You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. – Steve Jobs.

An Inspirational Story ~ Weakness or Strength

Sometimes our biggest weakness can become our biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study Judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.

The boy began lessons with an old Japanese Judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn’t understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move. “Sensei,” the boy finally said, “Shouldn’t I be learning more moves?” “This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you’ll ever need to know.” – the sensei replied.

Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training. Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.

This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened. “No,” the sensei insisted, “Let him continue.” Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.

On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind. “Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?”

“You won for two reasons,” the sensei answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grap your left arm.” The boy’s biggest weakness had become his biggest strength. 

Moral : Sometimes our biggest weakness can become our biggest strength. ~ Get Inspired ~ Inspire others 

A Day to Remember #MBA #BAWARCHEESE

Over the course of my life, I have experienced many days of happiness which has given me fond memories and they all had a unique ingredient that separated them from each other as each was a distinct experience in itself...

The 23rd June 2014 has become a part of the same, a day that I shall remember with extra fondness, a day that will occupy a bigger space in my heart, the day I as a part of an amazing team set up a stall and lived the dream of being an entrepreneur for a day...A Great Effort by the team consisting of Ayush, Sahasranshu, Chirag, Kajal, Nutan, Amita, Gesu, Nilay, Ajesh, Mahesh and last but not the least, ME...Sparsh Fun and Food Carnival gave us this wonderful opportunity to raise money for a social cause. The money generated to be given to an NGO. So all of us were up for it to ensure that we gain maximum out of it...

The first thing was the decision on the type of stall and obviously the answer had to be a food stall considering the type of foodies that we are... The next was to decide the menu...Following a lot of deliberations on the same, the menu fixed was Burgers, Wraps and Masala/Lemon Drink…Pav bhaji had to be dropped for the sake of convenience...Funds were raised in the most convincing fashion and there were as many as 10 stakeholders who were ready to invest in it for the sake of friendship and for business as well...But the name of dishes and the stall was yet to be decided...Bhaiyajji would not let it name by his name making it tough to come to a consensus...Finally the name decided was Bawar-Cheese...The dishes were named as Sunny burger and the drink as Leone drink but considering the family audience that may have visited us, the idea was to be scraped and decency prevailed while deciding the name...

The procurement happened on D Day and everyone was put to work, be it cutting veggies or lifting stuff or decorating the stall...We were all set to go...I still did not believe that it was to happen and didn’t know whether we could actually succeed... But Ayush put all these doubts to rest with the way he cooked the food...Gosh !!!That was some cooking and he resembled a pro in each sense...The ball was rolling and we were all set to “Rock N Roll”...We were open and were soon flooded with orders...We were actually running overfull and were finding it tough in all respects...Be it fund collection or be it delivery...With the entire manpower at work we did manage to get through it with a few hiccups and may be a few abuses from the crowd...

Sold out in an hour and a half...I mean this was something serious...It was working...People indeed liked our food and kept coming back for more...The 2nd round of procurement followed a similar trend by getting sold out in an hour...The remaining tikkies and all were sold as a new dish Cheese Breadiana- a name coined by Chirag...And even this sold in large numbers and we were done for the day- Both physically and stockwise...

It was indeed an eventual day...We did break even and contributed to the cause in the process...It was indeed a day that brought smiles to SITM and more importantly to the students of Lavale...The greater cause of serving the needy still remains and this initiative is sure to go a long way in doing the same...Way to go S.P.A.R.S.H...Celebrating Life...

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The critical ingredient is getting off your butt and doing something. It’s as simple as that. A lot of people have ideas, but there are few who decide to do something about them now. Not tomorrow. Not next week. But today. The true entrepreneur is a doer, not a dreamer.

A trip to Remember #2

MBA was always bound to happen sometime or the other but maybe I felt the earlier the better and attempting to get there was always the plan... SNAP was the way to get there and attempting it the first time did demand a bit of seriousness which was though missing in me then...No regrets as such but may be something different could have happened if I had actually been a bit more serious...

Nonetheless, the journey to Kolhapur for my first attempt at SNAP was always going to be a new venture in itself and something new to explore...The bus journey with one of my most trusted friends Pushkar was to take me there...The foodies that we were, and will always be, had a merry time as expected...The journey was a pleasant one nonetheless and may be it was a sign of things to follow...

Kolhapur was explored in whatever little was possible in the limited time we had with no tension of the exam...The almost free stay @LIC Guest House made me wonder how cheap was actually cheap...I mean 3Rs. a day for the room was something serious and unimaginable in today’s world...All money spent on chicken, chicken and more chicken to satisfy our tummy to the fullest...May be I have not had so much chicken in my life in 3 days as I had during those 3 days...Heavenly Stuff indeed !!!

The exam went on, may be not as expected, but we were happy nonetheless...Post the exam, we were all free and nothing much to do as the bus was scheduled for the night...That’s when the idea came to the mind to get a bit dirty...Not in the true sense but by seeing something which was dirty in itself...Yes it was the “The Dirty Picture” in one of the low third grade theatres...Watching a movie like that among a raunchy crowd like that getting the full feel of the movie...Some experiences that stayed etched in the memory for a long time and a strong recommendation that all should try experiencing this...

All said and done, the trip ended as well as it started...The exam was a disaster and I didn’t make it but I did fight on to live another, fight another year and get in the next time, though I had definitely taken a small baby step towards my dream...Here I am, this is me...

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Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.

13th June 1999...#THE GREATESTMISS

I still have faint memories of the game and it has been replayed time and again and has indeed become a part of the Cricketing Folklore...May be day that fortunes would have changed for a nation so much in a fix that everyone felt, may be, they deserved better...The chokers tag lived on with South Africa that day and it stays etched with them…May be its meant to stay this way for long and nonetheless they have found out enough ways to justify the same...

Rewind back in history to the 1999 Cricket World Cup...

The key moment came perhaps the night before, at a team meeting where Shane Warne cautioned his mates not to walk if they happened to hit a catch to Herschelle Gibbs. "He has a tendency to flick the ball away before accepting it properly," said Warne, only to be greeted with mocking laughs...

This was a do or die game for Australia and it’s a known fact that Kangaroos fight the hardest when cornered. So, in a thriller, they duly did - leapfrogging South Africa in the process, and loading the dice heavily in their favor for the semi-final which eventually helped them get through. South Africa batted first on a bouncy Headingley pitch and rattled up 271, despite the return to form of Warne. Gibbs, with his own customary brilliance made South Africa's only century of the tournament and the innings was well finished by Klusener. A chase of 272 in a crunch game is always meant to jangle up the nerves...

Australia's response was mirrored by doubt - Adam Gilchrist bowled, Mark Waugh run out, and Damien Martyn lofting a catch to mid-on. When Waugh strode out, with the board reading a poor 48 for 3 in a knockout game, Australia's hopes appeared to be in tatters. "Let's see how he takes the pressure now," taunted Gibbs. Waugh urged a struggling Ricky Ponting to go for his strokes, showing the way with some punishing shots of his own. They were steadily progressing further...

Waugh had made 56, with the score on 152, when he flicked a Lance Klusener delivery to midwicket. Gibbs took it, but in his anxiety to celebrate with a skyward hurl, he dropped the ball. Waugh's reaction has gone down in the annals of the game as one of the most amazing comments made. Though he admitted later that it was stupid, he told Gibbs: "I hope you realise that you've just lost the game for your team"...

With his captaincy on the line, Waugh had indeed played one of the greatest innings ever seen on the World Cup stage with an awesome 120 not out. Not only did it keep Australia in the Cup, it did put them above South Africa in the Super Six stage even though both eventually qualified through the stage. However this game would have a monstrous significance when the two sides tied in the semi-final four days later and Aussies went through in a great fashion. Australia did go on to win the World Cup then and may be the History stayed on with South Africa…They were out to create history and ended up setting something not so memorable for them...

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Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake

FIFA World Cup 2014

A truly amazing football spectacle that dawns once in every 4years and does leave one with some really memorable and spectacular moments is finally here...The wait was indeed a bit too long but nonetheless it was a wait well worth its weight in gold...The last standing images of FIFA World Cup 2010 does remain Spain’s ascend to glory by fighting the Dutch Orange in the African jungles...La Furia Roza had indeed ascended to glory using the now famous “Tiki-Taka” and in the process had breached 12 kilometres that separated Spain from Africa at their closest point and thus spread a wave of happiness stretching all the way from Bloemfontein to Barcelona.

This was Africa's first FIFA World Cup and it will live in the memory as much for the spirit and smiles of the host nation as for the success of a Spain team. The Vuvuzelas still ring in my mind and so does “ Waka Waka”...That was some 4 years back and for a person like me who has a habit of forgetting things pretty soon, this indeed is surprising but pleasant in itself.

FIFA World Cup indeed is a time when giants fight their way to glory while avoiding the spectacular challengers. All this with just one sole aim- GLORY...That’s what drives them and watching the efforts makes up for spectacular viewing. A team rises-falls, careers are made-break and history is rewritten...A 48 year wait for Glory does not speak highly of any team and to say the least for England...May be they just needed some luck at times (with dreaded penalties) or some more co-ordination among the superstars but that’s what has never materialized...Its another world cup now and I still hope that the 3Lions end their wait for football glory...I have this desire that I can one day see England lifting the world cup- A strange expectation but quite obvious given my love for the English Premiership...

England has indeed looked promising, as always, in the build up to the World Cup but its been far too often that they have flattered to deceive...May be this is a time to actually deliver a killer blow for the world to see...

For starters, a tough Group D comprising of Italy, Uruguay and Costa Rica should serve England good...The Azzuri and notably slow starters and with many players well past their prime, it would be difficult to sustain the intensity, may be Super Mario will have to drive them forward by warming up their engines well in time...Next up, Uruguay, a team with high aspirations but a lot resting on injured Luis Suarez, a departure leaving them weak upfront...If they do manage to come through the Italy and Uruguay games unscathed, then its Costa Rica last up, not an easy game by any means, but it would take a brave man to bet against them  for this game. What follows is that emerging through a tough group means Roy Hodgson’s side would be hugely confident facing a team from Group C, likely to be Colombia, Ivory Coast or Japan, Not an as daunting prospect as it appeared in the first place...

If Hodgson does go with the expected starting XI, four of their front six — Steven Gerrard, Jordan Henderson, Raheem Sterling and Daniel Sturridge — will have all been an integral part of Liverpool’s title-contending side. Something that has always raised its evil head, that after competing against each other in the Premier League, the players do not mix well and play as a team. In addition, Wayne Rooney and Jack Wilshere aren’t exactly bad alternatives to Luis Suarez and Philippe Coutinho, so they should be more than a match for most teams in an attacking-sense... It could very well be Rooney’s last chance for glory at World Cup given the newly found emphasis on youth. In addition, the understanding that the Liverpool players will have built up will work to their advantage, as will their renewed determination to win trophies after the Premier League narrowly eluded them earlier this season... Defensively also, they are not as weak as they would perhaps appear on paper with Joe Hart returning to what he does best and Gary Cahill, Leighton Baines and Phil Jagielka having good campaigns with their respective teams... The chokers tag does remain firmly with them and may be its high time that the tag is taken of them...

England’s world cup preparations have indeed gone on pretty smoothly and this is a lot to go with the mood in the camp... The players appear happier by actually enjoying themselves and surely gone is the sullen arrogance of some seasoned internationals who have quite often given the impression that they had little to prove... For a start the youngsters in the squad seem to have energized the mood in the camp and they look like players who are genuinely excited to be involved. History does say that come the big occasion, in business, politics or sport, experience is your strongest card but Roy's kids could dispel myths that experience always trumps age...A group of boys can truly turn to Men by going for glory...

Last but not the least, the omen s are stronger than ever before... The under-17s just won the European championship and that too on penalties...England are one of the only 2 teams to have beaten Brazil in recent times... Also there are a lot of comparatives with 1966- the year of England’s sole World Cup victory, Austria won the Eurovision Song Contest, AC Milan and Manchester United missed out on Europe, Atletico Madrid won La Liga, Real Madrid won the European Cup, Real Betis were relegated and Deportivo La Coruna were promoted. Some thing that has repeated in 2104...May be the “Scarlett’s Roses”(the English song for world cup) will indeed inspire them this time around...

All said and done, may the best team win...Football is a game to be enjoyed and so be it this time too...

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Step follows step, Hope follows Courage, Set your face towards danger, Set your heart on victory...

But

Anyone can deal with victory. Only the mighty can bear defeat...

A trip to Remember #1

Travelling by trains has always been something amusing since childhood, may be due to the halo that has been built around it...They say that trains are always more comfortable than buses...May be its true as well but its takes some doing to convince me on this...All because, buses have been the more preferred mode for me, since long...

One such journey which will always stay etched in my memory forever was the journey back from Manipal(Udupi) to Goa sometime in the final year of Engineering...A visit to Manipal for paper presentation of my final year B.E. project at TechTatva 2011...There were a total of 10 of us from our college for the event...With due credits to Anusha, Maitreyee, Shainavi, Sandhya, Tanvi, Siddhart, Mahadev, Vaibhav and obviously Kapil and me...A normal journey by train and we were there...It was just me and Kapil who went by trains while others, may be took the safer and the more expensive option of going by bus...Till date, I am still surprised how Kapil actually ended up coming with me as he has long history, just as mine, of betraying people...

The event was great and to top it all, we won the second prize...Our debut paper presentation and 2^nd prize...Wow... Not a bad start at all...More than the prize, it was the way we spoke...The concepts that we invented and not only that convinced it to the judges...It was all just an awesome feeling...I still don’t know what was it that gave me the courage to speak up so freely, may be it was something got to do with the place i.e. Manipal...

With the prize with us, a celebration had to follow by a visit to the city and munching on some stuff...A call to our faculty guide and hearing him on phone made us actually realize how significant it was...A sense of accomplishment had already set in...

A train trip back to home was to follow that night...A journey back to the place we truly belong-Goa...The train scheduled at 1am at night and was to drop us at our destination at 6 in the morning, early enough for a cup of morning tea and breakfast to go along... I do know very well that most trains go jam packed and travelling in general bogies has always been a curse, however I didn’t expect it to be so bad...We hardly got inside the compartment in the first place and to think of it that we would have to travel this way for the next 5hours was something bad to think about...

We were indeed fighting to hold onto our place in the train, but somehow we did manage enough space to accommodate our healthy bodies...A few stops later, the journey eased out and we could stand in peace but may be longed for a seat, which I was pretty sure we won’t be getting anytime sooner...There was idea that we came upon there and then...We were in a general bogie and it would not be any shame to travel sitting on the floor of the train, after all there were people who hardly knew us and even if someone did, it didn't matter obviuosly...Yes, we did it and got ourselves prized seats on the floor, something that I had never ever imagined doing in my life, but as they say, when the opportunities arrive, seize it ...Some random Kannada comments here and there kept me awake and somehow the feeling of happiness stayed with me...It was only early morning when we were about to reach that we got a proper place to sit and complete the last lap of the journey...

I am pretty sure that I had got enough abuses from Kapil but it was an experience that even he cherishes till date...My idea, my execution and my mistakes but he was there at all times to support and accompany me...Way to go Dude !!!

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Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.